The change in funerals in recent years is remarkable, with over 50% now being without a religious minister and that proportion is higher for funerals of people under the age of 75. A funeral celebrant will reflect the life, values and beliefs of the person who has died and whatever level of formality is preferred. You can choose any music and songs, any readings and poetry, and still include a bit of religion, a hymn or a prayer if you want to.
Another change is the rise of woodland and natural burials. There are 13 sites in Devon and we have held funerals at many of them. These tend to be informal and families and friends can take ownership and more control of the proceedings. Being out in nature is inspiring and comforting and gives the opportunity for ‘moments of grace’, an owl hooting as the coffin is lowered in the early afternoon, a fox walking by, a shaft of sunlight from a dark sky.
Over 70% of people are cremated, but many want to avoid the constraints of the crematorium and hold the ceremony elsewhere. In our beautiful ceremony hall, a light and airy stone barn on the banks of the River Dart, you can take as much time as you like and stay on for food and refreshments. Many people come out saying “I never knew a funeral could be like that”. Well it can, whatever you choose it to be, expressing love and spirit, a funeral with heart and soul.
